| tresfresh | |
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Hello Everyone,
I have been in a long-term relationship for just over 2 years now with my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 19. At first we had a bit of a rocky start with each other, but with time we've been able to forgive each other for our misdeeds. Now the relationship is very stable, and very loving, but it is only I who has a problem now. I do love my girlfriend, and I enjoy the comfort of the relationship, but at the same time, I am not sure if I want to be with her for the rest of my life with her. I enjoy the comfort of the relationship, but at the same time I feel like breaking it off with her and dating other women. I'm afraid of true long-term commitment, but I'm also afraid if I break it off with her, that I won't be able to find something as stable ever again. My question comes as simple as this: Should I break up with her, because I don't know exactly what I want in my love life? This is really tearing me up inside, and any advice offered would help me a bunch. |
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| Jennifer | |
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Ok, you both are really young (I cant say too much being only 22)... You are still growing and maturing. I cant tell you what to do, but I can tell you that if you get bored in this relationship, the tempation will be there to go and "explore". If you truly love this girl, talk to her about what your feeling. Communication is one the best tools in the world.
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| sunshine101 | |
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I'm 18 and i know exactly how you feel. I keep thinking that i really want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend of almost 2 years, but at the same time it seems almost unrealistic and also im not sure how he feels exactly. so i definetly suggest commuincating with her and just trying to find out if she is someone you know for a fact you cant picture living without. If you do end up having doubts on the relationship, maybe a small break will help so you can have time to figure things out?
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